I believe that all the adult humans living in this world need a sex intercourse, because it is a natural feeling that Allah give us.Islam has given a true way to channel our sexual desire by Nikah. Nikah is good solution to avoid many of sex illness such as AIDS.Islam has managed a good way to handle a wife perfectly and how does a wife do for her husband in their family.Our prophet Muhammad SAW gives us a good attitude to handle our wife prefectly.
Muhammad Antonio Syafi’i in his book ; Muhammad SAW the Super Leader Super Manager, said that Muhammad SAW. is a model husband :
1. Imam Bukhori and Imam Muslim told, that Rasulullah SAW.was sitting beside his camel, then he put his knees, and then his wife Syafiyyah steped her foot on Muhammad’s knees, and ride the camel.(Shahih Bukhari No.2235).So we can follow his good habbit to open the car and please our wife enter it .
2. One of our prophet mandates to us is the suggestion for all the husbands to kiss their wife when they go to their office or other duties. Aisyah said : Rasulullah kissed me, then he went to the mosque for praying without renew his ritual abluition. So, it’s a good habbit to kiss each other between a wife and a husband when a husband wants to leave a home (farewell kiss).
3. Aisyah said :”I was drinking, while I was in haidh/menstruation, then I gave the drink to Rasulullah, and he put his mouth in my cup I used, then he drunk it. I ever ate a meat left of a bone, while I had been haidh/menstruation. Then I gave a meat to Rasulullah and he put his mouth on my mouthprint.” We can say for such this habbit “sepiring berdua” (use a plate by two persons).
4. Aisyah RA said :”Rasulullah SAW is a lover and soft/tender husband. And he will be softer and most company his wife when she had been sick.
5. A feeling of being intimate example that was given by Rasulullah is not only in flirtatious flattery and sex intercourse but also in all the family activities. Rasulullah tught us to make a feeling of being intimate although in taking a bath.Aisyah said :”I take a bath together with Rasulullah SAW in one vessel.I precede and he precedes to take a dipper, he said :”leave behind. And I said :”Leave behind.”
to be continuoued…
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